A Humble Apology

The Ultimate College Survival Guide: Conquering Finals, Balancing Life, and Deliciously Simple Meals

Life as a college student is a dynamic tapestry woven with ambition, late nights, intellectual pursuits, and, more often than not, an overwhelming schedule. If you’ve been following along, you might have noticed my recent absence from these pages, and for that, I extend my sincerest apologies. Consistency, it turns out, is a luxury not easily afforded when juggling the multifaceted demands of university life. When I embarked on this blogging journey, I confess I underestimated the sheer difficulty of maintaining a regular publishing schedule while simultaneously excelling as a full-time college student, dedicating hours as a research assistant, and nurturing a fulfilling relationship. Each role, in itself, is a significant commitment, but together, they create a whirlwind of responsibilities that can feel truly relentless, especially during the most dreaded period of the academic calendar: ‘dead week.’

For those unfamiliar with the collegiate lexicon, ‘dead week’ is the intensive, often brutal, week leading up to final examinations. It’s a period synonymous with academic high-stakes, where the cumulative effort of an entire semester converges into a concentrated flurry of deadlines. This is the week when professors, seemingly in unison, decide to pile on the last-minute assignments: final research papers that demand meticulous citation, forgotten extra credit opportunities that suddenly become crucial, and a myriad of other miscellaneous tasks that somehow slipped through the cracks earlier in the term. Beyond the deluge of submissions, this week also serves as the critical window for students to meticulously cram for the looming finals scheduled for the following week. It’s a period of immense pressure, profound mental fatigue, and a test of endurance that pushes many to their absolute limits.

My own ‘dead week’ experience this term has been no exception to this intense academic crucible. So far, I’ve successfully navigated the submission of four major final papers, participated in two extensive ‘formal discussions’ that felt more like oral exams, and completed five various ‘busy work’ assignments – the kind that contribute to your grade but primarily serve to occupy every spare moment. And yet, the battle is far from over. As I write this, I still have four comprehensive final exams looming, each requiring significant preparation and review. It’s a relentless marathon, demanding constant focus and an almost superhuman ability to switch between vastly different subjects and intellectual modes.

It’s no wonder that during this peak stress period, you’ll find myriad students employing various coping mechanisms, often transforming the very campus into a temporary living space. One common sight is students finding solace and a brief respite in the most unlikely places, such as the campus cafe, where exhaustion often overtakes the need for a proper bed. The image below perfectly encapsulates this shared experience of academic exhaustion:

Students sleeping in campus cafe during dead week

Normally, when faced with such overwhelming pressure, my go-to coping mechanism is to retreat to the kitchen and cook compulsively. The act of creating something tangible, following a recipe, and engaging my senses in a different way usually provides a therapeutic escape. However, this semester’s ‘dead week’ has proven to be an exception; I simply do not have the luxury of time for elaborate culinary endeavors. Every minute is accounted for, meticulously allocated to academic tasks, leaving no room for the joy of experimental cooking or even leisurely meal preparation. It’s a stark reminder of how demanding this phase of student life can be, forcing us to prioritize survival over self-care and passion projects.

The mantra echoing in my mind has become a persistent hum: “Three more terms, three more terms, three more terms…” It’s a whispered hope, a light at the end of a very long tunnel, reminding me that this intense period of academic rigor and relentless deadlines is finite. Each ‘term’ represents a significant milestone, bringing me closer to the culmination of my college journey. This mental countdown serves as a small anchor, a way to visualize progress even when the present feels impossibly heavy.

In fact, as I type these very words, I should undoubtedly be dedicating my full attention to finishing my last major final paper. And in a way, I am – this blog post is a momentary, albeit risky, detour from that imperative task. My computer screen, a digital reflection of my current mental state, is a chaotic collage of open tabs, academic articles, research databases, and word documents, all vying for attention. It’s a visual representation of the academic overwhelm that defines ‘dead week’ for so many students:

Computer screen with many open tabs during finals

Whew. Anyway, enough about the academic grind; let’s shift gears to something a little more palatable: food-related matters. As I mentioned, cooking has been largely off the table during these intensely busy periods, unless, of course, I hit a complete breakdown and desperately need that therapeutic release. Consequently, my dinners haven’t exactly been ‘blog-worthy’ in the traditional sense – no intricate recipes or gourmet presentations. However, I believe there’s a unique kind of authenticity in sharing the reality of student eating during crunch time. These meals are a testament to survival, efficiency, and the occasional indulgence. So, despite their simplicity, I thought I’d share a glimpse into what sustained me through this challenging week, hoping it might resonate with other students seeking practical, comforting, and quick meal ideas when time is a luxury they can’t afford.

A recent trip home provided a much-needed injection of culinary relief: a generous bag full of frozen meat goodness. This time around, the bounty happened to be venison, a lean and flavorful alternative to traditional ground beef. This unexpected provision became the star of our quick-and-easy-but-still-awesome dinner on Sunday night: venison nachos. The beauty of nachos lies in their simplicity and speed of preparation, making them an ideal meal for busy students. We layered crispy tortilla chips with perfectly seasoned ground venison, a generous amount of melty cheese, and all the classic nacho fixings. The venison, being much leaner than beef, offered a slightly healthier profile, though I confess, when generously covered in gooey cheese, the ‘health’ aspect becomes a delightful internal debate. But in moments like these, one pretends it matters, if only for peace of mind!

Venison Nachos, a quick and easy student meal

Monday proved to be an exceptionally grueling day, pushing my mental and physical reserves to their absolute limits. The sheer volume of work, combined with mounting pressure, rendered any thought of cooking utterly impossible. On such days, survival mode kicks in, and sometimes, the best solution is the simplest one: outsourcing. That’s how we found ourselves indulging in Papa Murphy’s pizza. There’s an undeniable comfort in the convenience of a freshly made pizza, baked at home with minimal effort, offering a warm, satisfying meal that requires no clean-up beyond the box. Pizza, after all, is a universal symbol of deliciousness and an entirely acceptable coping mechanism when the academic world feels like it’s crumbling around you. It’s a testament to the fact that sometimes, you just need a break, and a cheesy, carb-loaded slice is precisely what the doctor ordered.

By Tuesday, the relentless pace of ‘dead week’ had me desperately craving genuine comfort food. My soul yearned for something warm, substantial, and utterly familiar – a meal that felt like a hug from the inside out. I insisted on taking a small break from the books to cook, even if just for a short while, to prepare a meal that would truly nourish both body and spirit. The result was a classic combination that rarely disappoints: perfectly seared sirloin steak alongside creamy mashed potatoes. This was a particularly exciting culinary moment for me, as I cooked steak stovetop for the very first time in my life, using just a little melted butter to achieve a beautiful crust and tender interior. It was, quite simply, perfect. The aroma alone was intoxicating, filling our small kitchen with a rich, savory scent that was far too good to waste precious moments on photography. I admit, the steak went straight from pan to plate to mouth, and I have absolutely no regrets. My deep affection for steak is well-documented, and as I’ve often said, I squarely blame my parents for instilling this particular culinary love affair in me from a young age.

Today, Wednesday, saw us succumbing once again to a beloved culinary habit: Chipotle for dinner. I think it’s safe to say we’re undeniably addicted to that place. Its customizable bowls and burritos offer a quick, flavorful, and relatively fresh option that fits perfectly into a busy student schedule. However, I am proud to report that I did make a truly excellent lunch earlier in the day. We had grilled cheese sandwiches, but I introduced a delightful twist that elevated them from simple to sublime: I spread some of the leftover chipotle-mayo mixture from our recent fish tacos inside the bread before grilling. The spicy, smoky creaminess infused into the classic grilled cheese was phenomenal and absolutely rocked our taste buds. It’s a small, creative hack that proves even the most basic meals can be transformed with a little ingenuity and leftover ingredients. And if you haven’t gathered it by now, allow me to reiterate: we absolutely love spicy food!

Grilled cheese with chipotle-mayo, a creative student lunch

Despite the current chaos, there’s always something exciting simmering in the background for this blog. I’m thrilled to announce that I’ll be posting my highly anticipated cookie exchange recipe this upcoming weekend. Trust me when I say, it’s a recipe that will truly rock your world, delivering on both flavor and festive cheer. Get ready to bake! I’m holding out hope that I’ll manage to sneak in another quick post before then, perhaps sharing a final ‘dead week’ thought or a simple snack idea to help you power through. The goal, as always, is to bring you content that’s both inspiring and relatable, even during these incredibly hectic times.

As we push through the final days of this demanding period, I want to extend a heartfelt wish for you to enjoy your week, whatever your commitments may be. And to my fellow college students battling through ‘dead week’ and finals: please, for the love of all that is academic, don’t hurt yourselves. Remember to take small breaks, hydrate, and try to grab a few moments of rest whenever possible. The finish line is truly in sight; it’s almost over. If you survive this academic gauntlet with your sanity (mostly) intact, I promise to bake you some of my truly awesome cookie exchange cookies as a well-deserved reward. Stay strong, stay focused, and remember that even in the most challenging times, a good meal and a little kindness can make all the difference. We’re in this together!